Met someone ... it was in September.
I had once before driven to someone's house on a whim.
Yes, that's what happens when you're back on the market. Dating ... not an easy task ... starting over every time.
Shall I delve deeper next time.
Anyway .... Friday the thirteenth in September. Got in my car and drove to the middle of the country.
On the way, nice music on, to a place or environment unknown to me, to his house.
We had texted each other about ten times I think.... yes too much! And from there we arranged to meet. Last thing asked via the app was... what do you drink... besides coffee? Beer... yes I occasionally like a beer. So he sent ... beer is in the house. Well, what's your address?
Quite handy if I know that. I've already sent it he said... telepathy. I thought and he typed it. For the rest I didn't know much... except that he had also sent me some voice messages..... pleasant cheerful, spontaneous voice!
Good morning darling.... yes he said that soon... but I liked that.
A few back and forth. Google maps on... about an hour and a half drive.
So doable. Texted, I'm driving now, nice he said, cozy.
Yes just an appointment.
Had to pay attention because it is quite remote.
Hey! How nice, he was waiting outside for me.
Just a kind of introduction, the dogs were a bit further in another part of the garden, and we took a seat on the porch.
First impression, good, he looked good too, yes physical attraction is also important. At least I think so.
The conversation actually went smoothly, and I felt okay.
Large garden, garden house in the back, with bizarre things hanging from the movie Friday the 13th. He told me he had just bought a motorcycle, looked cool!
Singer of ..... is on it.
But after chatting for about two hours you get the feeling of moving on with the day. I thought, I'll just drive home again.
I'll finish my beer and then I'll go I said.
Come on the couch for a while, it's more comfortable, yes oh and why not?
Before I knew it we were kissing and it took a completely different turn.
Actually laughable. You're at a certain age, never had sex on the first date, which sounds old-fashioned, but true. A novice in that area.
But in the whole sex party I got the feeling as if we had been sex partners for years. So easy and damn nice. I also let myself go completely!
But I also knew this wasn't going to happen.
Weird
Okay the goodbye came...
Another quick kiss ... got back in my car ... looked in my mirror.
If I come home like this, it will be seen that I had sex.
Hahaha, hair wild, makeup all over the place. Stopped on the way.... sprayed some perfume, put on lipstick, combed hair.
Yes felt good and naughty... music on 10 in the car ...
The kids luckily didn't notice anything when I got home.
Lucky I thought.
It didn't stop at one time.... so no one night stand.
We discussed how we saw it.
Well... friends with benefits We both agreed with that.
Lovely idea I thought....
No accountability, no relationship, because I wasn't ready for that yet.
But still have a bed partner.
To be continued